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Internet Safety tips for Parents

Internet safetytips for parents

Care for the familyThe internet is a source of concern for many parents. Media scare stories abound. And it doesn’t help that our kids often know more about the internet than we do! As with anything, the internet has both positive and negative aspects. While there are several things every parent needs to consider about their kids growing up in a virtual world, it’s also good to recognise the internet as an unparalleled source of information, education, and relaxation. Care for the Family’s Support Net will hopefully give you some practical advice, and help you find out more about life in the virtual world.

Safety Tip

Make sure your children always ask you before they download anything from the web, especially if it’s from a website they’ve never used before. ‘Free’ things like ‘smiley faces’ or screensavers may include hard-to-detect viruses.

Keeping your kids safe

Children  on the netHuge growth areas on the internet in the past couple of years are ‘networking sites’ such as MySpace, Bebo, Teenspot and the rapidly expanding Facebook. These sites make keeping in touch with friends very easy – although ‘friends’ can include friends of friends or people your child has met at an event, like a summer camp.

How networking sites work

Essentially all networking sites operate along the same lines: you register with your name, address, e-mail and phone number and then fill in a personal profile which will cover things like your favourite music, bands, films and other interests. All this appears on your own web page. Some sites allow you to design your page in your own style. You can usually also upload photos, ‘post’ links to other websites and send messages to your friends. Most sites give you the option to keep your profile information secret except for your approved friends, although you have to choose to do this. The popularity of networking sites means your children are probably going to want to establish their own profile on at least one of them. If you’re concerned about this, then set a few ground rules:
  1. Make sure they only let ‘friends’ they actually know see their profile. You may need to explain to your child that, online, not everyone is who they claim to be.
  2. Agree what kind of pictures they can put online, especially if they have a camera on their mobile phone or their own digital camera.
  3. Ensure they know that any ‘rules’ you’ve agreed on for internet use (time allowed on, etc.) apply to networking sites too.

Inappropriate contact

Occasionally in the media, you read stories about how networking sites, ‘instant messaging’, and chat rooms may put children at risk. The vast majority of the time this isn’t the case, but there have been a few high profile cases where children and young teenagers have ‘met’ people online, and then arranged to meet in the real world, with serious consequences. As a parent there are several things you can do to prevent situations like this:

  • Be aware of who your kids are talking to online
  • Explain sensitively that people might not be who they say they are online
  • Encourage them to use sites which require all users to register
  • Make sure your child doesn’t use a web-cam (camera linked to the computer) without you or another responsible adult present
  • Tell your child never to send photos of themselves to someone they don’t know, and never to open files or photos sent from someone they’ve only met online
  • Make your kids aware of the CHAT points listed below – perhaps cut out the section and pin it up somewhere near the computer

 

Simple safety steps for chat rooms

Careful - people online may not be who they say they are.
Hang onto your personal information – never give out your e-mail or home address, phone number or where you go to school.
Arranging to meet could be dangerous – never meet someone offline unless you are sure who they are, and then only in a public place, with a parent/carer.
Tell your friends or an adult if you come across something that makes you feel uncomfortable.

Adapted from www.care.org.uk/anon

 
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